Over-The-Door Organisers…A Clever Nursery Storage Solution

I wanted to share an idea for storing all those little bits and bobs in the nursery that you often need close to hand.

I have used an over-the-door shoe organiser with clear plastic pockets, which I picked up cheaply at my local supermarket, to store all of the baby stuff that I need to be easily accessible.

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I have used some of the pockets to store toiletries and medicines…

  • Hairbrush and Comb
  • Nail Scissors
  • Digital Thermometer
  • Toothbrush
  • Teething Gel
  • Teething Dummy
  • Liquid Menthol for Steam Vapouriser
  • Menthol Chest Rub
  • Saline Nasal Drops and Aspirator
  • Baby Nurofen

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In other pockets we have Swimming Nappies, Sun Cream, Sunglasses and Wet Wipes.

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The remaining pockets are used to house

  • Flip Flops/Sandals
  • Hats
  • Reusable bag (for holding toys to take on a play date)

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We have another over-the-door organiser hanging on our bedroom door in preparation for the new baby and I am in the process of filling it will all of the necessary items for a newborn.  I will blog again when it is complete and share some photos of the finished product.

5 A Day Books Week 2…

After a very successful first week of ‘5 A Day Books’, we have had another fun week of reading.  The only problem is that Seb gets really upset when we finish the 5 books and we usually end up having to read them all again!

Here are our book choices for Week 2…

That’s not my train… (Usborne touchy-feely books)

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We had to include another book from this series as Seb just loves them.  These books feature simple, repetitive text and the illustrations are bright and colourful.  They are specially designed to help develop sensory and language awareness in babies and toddlers, and every book in the series includes a mouse for baby to spot on each page.

Peekaboo Zoo! (Ladybird)

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This is a really lovely first lift-the-flap book for babies and young toddlers.  There are different wild animals to discover on each page, with a mirror on the last page so that baby can have the excitement of finding themselves under the flap.  The book features funny rhymes and brings Seb’s favourite game of “Peek-a-boo” to life.

Spot’s Pop-up Playtime (Eric Hill)

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A gorgeous pop-up book that follows Spot and his friends as they play with his favourite toys.  Seb loves looking at the exciting pop-ups, especially the flying kite.  I have to stop Seb from grabbing the pop-ups as he has almost torn off a football already!

Rudie Nudie (Emma Quay)

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Sebastian just loves this charming book about some ‘Rudie Nudie’ escapades between bathtime and bedtime.  It features lively rhyming text and beautiful illustrations.  Seb wriggles in delight every time I read this story to him and I think it will be a firm family favourite.

Check on Me (Andrew Daddo, Jonathan Bentley)

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In this adorable book a small child describes his bedtime rituals with Dad: a ride to bed, favourite stories to be told, cuddles, kisses, conversation, a drink, a visit to the toilet, but most of all reassurance that even when he is asleep, his parents will check on him.  This is a classic bedtime story book that shows a warm,loving relationship between a father and son…so this is definitely one for Mr G to read with Seb in the future.

Sebastian seems to really like the routine of sitting down at the end of each day to read some stories with mummy.  By reading the same books to him every day for a week, he is able to get familiar with the different stories and explore the illustrations in more detail.  I should be able to find 5 new books from our collection at home for this week, but we will need to join the library before next week!

The Psychology Behind ‘In The Night Garden’…

Sebastian has well and truly fallen in love with ‘In The Night Garden’ (ITNG) over the last few weeks.  I had been debating whether or not to introduce it to him for a while, and I ultimately concluded that I was comfortable letting Seb watch an episode of ITNG as part of our evening routine.

Given that ITNG has proven to be such a hit with my son, I decided to do some research on the psychology behind the programme so that I could be better informed about its developmental and educational benefits.  Children’s television is an extremely contraversial subject and many parents strongly object to shows like ITNG, but I believe they can be a useful tool in helping a child make sense of their world.

ITNG is all about a magical place that exists between waking and sleeping in a child’s imagination.  Igglepiggle is the central character and he is seen floating out to sea in a small sailboat at the start of each episode.  This serves as a metaphorical explanation for sleep with Igglepiggle sailing away on a sea of sleep before he starts dreaming of a fantasy land.

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The Night Garden is inhabited by a number of funny and eccentric toy-like creatures.  The characters have a simple language system and each of the key characters have their own trademark song.  For those of you just starting out with ITNG, I have summarised the various different characters below:

  • Igglepiggle – a well-loved teddy who always carries around his red comfort blanket; curious and adventurous but often needs reassurance from the narrator.
  • Upsy Daisy – a happy and optimistic dolly; best friends with Igglepiggle.
  • Makka Pakka – cave-dwelling creature who likes collecting and washing stones; he always has his sponge and soap which he calls his “Agga Pang”.
  • Pontipines – family of 10 peg dolls that live in a semi-detached house at the foot of a tree; children often go missing but always return home safely.
  • Tombliboos – pepper-pot creatures that live inside a topiary bush; totter about as a group; called Unn, Ooo and Eee.
  • Ninky Nonk – funny train with different sized carriages.
  • Pinky Ponk – airship that the toys can travel in.
  • Haahoos – 5 enormous pillowy characters who roam the garden at a leisurely pace.

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The songs from ITNG are catchy to say the least, to the point that Mr G and I can regularly be found humming or whistling them around the house.  The best bit about them is that they are so conducive to ad libbing.  Once you know the tune, you can just make the words up as you go along.  Makka Pakka’s song gives you an idea of how weird and wonderful the lyrics are…

Makka Pakka, Akka Wakka, Mikka Makka moo!

Makka Pakka, Appa yakka, Ikka akka, ooo

Hum dum, Agga pang, Ing, ang, ooo

Makka Pakka, Akka wakka, Mikka Makka moo!

One of the creators of ITNG trained as a speech therapist and the play-language developed for the programme is rooted in his knowledge of speech development.  It therefore emphasises the key sounds typical of a toddler’s first attempts at talking.  The programme also utilises subliminal association techniques to help children with learning first words.  The best example of this is the names given to the Tombliboos:

  1. Tombliboo Unn
  2. Tombliboo Ooo
  3. Tombliboo Eee

The 3 Tombliboo characters are always referred to in this order and it is helping the child to learn One, Two, Three.  It’s a very obvious association but I had never noticed it until I did this research.

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The other example is the name given to Upsy Daisy which sounds remarkably similar to ‘Ups a Daisy’, a phrase often used by parents when picking up a child who has fallen over.

ITNG has a real innocence about it and the consistent structure from episode to episode is both reassuring and comforting.  The whole premise of the programme is that bedtime is a time for calmness and it attempts to diffuse tantrums by creating a situtation that the child can relate to.

I definitely have a soft spot for Makka Pakka and his OCD tendencies, and I love how the creators have used this character to diffuse another potentially difficult situation.  Like many children, Sebastian absolutely hates having his face washed after meals.  Makka Pakka loves to wash and dry the faces of the other toys and this playful version of face washing can assist parents to overcome battles with their toddler.

Having done my research on the psychology behind ITNG, I feel reassured that it has been created with a view to helping Sebastian understand his world.  ITNG respects the young child’s ability to use symbolism and transports them to a world of rich fantasy.  Sebastian is transfixed from the moment the programme starts and it obviously speaks to him in a way that is both entertaining and captivating.  Provided that his exposure to children’s television is kept to a minimum, I do not see it as harmful and I will not deny him the happiness he so obviously gets from watching ITNG.

‘Second Time Around’ Series – New Baby Checklist

This is the first blog in my ‘Second Time Around’ series, which is all about taking what I have learnt from becoming a mummy to Sebastian and using it to my advantage with baby #2.  As part of this series, I plan to cover maternity clothing, what to pack in your hospital bag, how to pack the ultimate nappy bag for two children under 2, and sleep routines.

As the newest member of our family is due to make an appearance in just over 14 weeks, I thought it would be useful to list out the essential items that I will need in those first few months so that I can start getting organised.  As Sebastian is only 10 months old, it wasn’t very long ago that we were preparing for his arrival and we were the epitome of naive first-time parents who bought every baby product under the sun in a vain attempt to be prepared for any eventuality.  It is only now, with the benefit of hindsight, that I can see the error of our ways and I have compiled this list of essential baby items by drawing on our experiences with Seb.

As I was not able to breastfeed Sebastian, my list of essential feeding items is based on a formula-fed baby.  Similarly, as we are having another ‘Autumn’ baby, my clothing checklist assumes a cooler climate.  I have included links to specific products that I highly recommend or plan to purchase for the new baby, and I will be writing more detailed blogs on each of the different categories over the next few weeks.

Baby Clothes

Newborn

  • A special ‘Going Home’ outfit to take to the hospital
  • 3-4 Sleepsuits
  • 3-4 Long-Sleeved Bodysuits
  • 6-8 Short-Sleeved Bodysuits
  • 1-2 Hats
  • 1-2 Cardigans

1 Month

  • 3-4 Sleepsuits
  • 6-8 Short-Sleeved Bodysuits
  • 6-8 Long-Sleeved Bodysuits
  • 1-2 Hats
  • 1-2 Cardigans

0-3 Months

  • 6-8 Sleepsuits
  • 6-8 Short-Sleeved Bodysuits
  • 6-8 Long-Sleeved Bodysuits
  • 3-4 Long-Sleeved Tops
  • 3-4 Enclosed Feet Joggers
  • Dungarees and Bodysuit Set
  • 2-3 Cardigans
  • 1-2 Jackets
  • 1-2 Hats

Feeding Time

  • 10-12 Bibs
  • 6-8 Swaddles/Burp Cloths
  • Electric Steriliser
  • Bottle Brush
  • 6 x 125ml Bottles
  • 6 Teats (Slow Flow)
  • Tins of Powdered Formula
  • Bottle Drying Rack
  • Insulated Bottle Bag
  • Antibacterial Wipes/Surface Spray
  • Hand Sanitiser

Bath Time

  • Baby Bath and Stand
  • 2-3 Hooded Bath Towels
  • 2-3 Wash Cloths
  • Bath Foam
  • Body Wash
  • Shampoo
  • Talcum Powder
  • Body Lotion
  • Lucas Paw Paw Ointment

Sleep Time

Out & About

  • Baby Bjorn/Ergo Carrier
  • Fold-up Changing Mat
  • Diaper Clutch
  • Bibs
  • Wet Bag
  • Insulated Bottle Bag
  • Pacifier Pouch
  • Swaddles
  • Spare Outfit
  • Cartons of ready to drink formula
  • Disposable bottles
  • Stroller Blanket
  • 2-3 Fitted Sheets for Stroller Bassinet
  • Storm Cover/UV Cover for Stroller Bassinet
  • Baby Capsule
  • Travel System for Stroller

Play Time

Nursery

  • Change Table
  • Changing Mat
  • Diaper Caddy
  • Feeding Chair & Foot Stool
  • Dim Light
  • Nappy Disposal System
  • Nappy wrapper refill cassettes
  • Laundry Basket

Health

  • Baby Nurofen
  • Medicine Dummy
  • Digital Thermometer
  • Infacol
  • Nappy Rash Cream
  • Nail Scissors

I hope that this is a useful checklist for other mums-to-be and it has certainly helped to focus my mind on what I need to have ready for baby #2.  In fact, while Seb is sleeping I will start sorting through his old baby clothes and seeing what I can recycle!

5 A Day Books Week 1…

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I discovered this wonderful idea on The Imagination Tree – it essentially ready the same 5 books to your baby every day for an entire week.  You then pick another 5 books for the next week, and so it continues!

Here are our book choices for Week 1…

The Very Hungry Caterpillar (Eric Carle)

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This book was a gift from Seb’s Nanny and is the inspiration for his upcoming first birthday party.  It has lovely, bright illustrations and Seb loves putting his fingers through the holes in the food!  The big reveal of the beautiful butterfly at the end of the story always puts a smile on his face too.  This book was a gift from Seb’s Nanny and is the inspiration for his upcoming first birthday party.

Each Peach Pear Plum (Janet and Allan Ahlberg)

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I couldn’t resist buying this one for Seb as it is such a gorgeous book that I remember from my own childhood.  Seb seems to love the rhythmic nature of this story and the illustrations are packed full of objects to point out to him.  Seb has even started to spot the hidden fairytale characters in each scene.  I think this book is going to be a favourite in our house.

Quick Duck! (Mary Murphy)

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This is a ‘Shiny Touch’ book with bold and simple illustrations that seem to really capture Seb’s attention.  I use my fingers to walk across the duck’s footprints and every page has to end with an enthusiastic ‘Quack!’.

That’s not my tiger… (Usborne touchy-feely books)

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Seb absolutely adores this series of touchy-feely books and instantly knows which part of the picture to touch.  It is a simple and repetitive story with brightly coloured illustrations, guaranteed to be a hit with babies everywhere!

baby hide and seek!

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This is a chunky board book that has tabs for baby to lift to reveal hidden objects.  Seb loves opening and closing each of the tabbed pages while I say ‘Peek-a-Boo!’.  The book features photos of real objects as opposed to illustrations – Seb’s favourite is the baby hiding under the blanket.

I have really enjoyed our first week of ‘5 A Day Books’ and am looking forward to reading 5 new books this week.  I probably have enough books at home to keep us going for another couple of weeks and then we will need to join our local library for fresh book supplies!

Learning to live “in the moment”…

As an obsessive compulsive planner, I really struggle to live “in the moment” as my mind is always racing between ‘To Do’ lists, meal planners, sleep routines, birthday parties, craft projects and ideas for my next blog.

A good friend of mine recommended that I read ‘Buddhism for Mothers’ and I’m so glad that she did as it’s a truly wonderful book.  Sarah Napthali gives a very honest account of how she discovered Buddhism as a means to navigating the path of motherhood and it was so refreshing to read something which acknowledges the inner strength required by new mums…“Motherhood forces women into a new kind of self-sufficiency.  Our only hope for mothering happily and wisely lies in developing inner resources to nourish ourselves.”

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A central theme of the book is the concept of ‘Mindfulness’ which is a state of complete awareness of the present moment.  Whilst I’m not convinced that it’s possible to be completely mindful at any given moment when multi-tasking is so ingrained in our everyday lives, I am guilty of being ‘mentally elsewhere’ in my pursuit of domestic perfection.

The book also talks about fostering a caring attitude towards yourself and points out that it is a waste of time and energy to dwell on your mistakes and shortfalls.  I am so often disappointed with myself for failing to live up to my ridiculously high standards and I need to learn to be more forgiving on these occasions.  After all, I am doing the best I can under the circumstances and Seb will not hold it against me if I make the odd mistake.  As much as I would like to take Seb for long walks every day, at 25 weeks pregnant I don’t always have the energy for it.  While I proceed to spend the day racked with guilt for denying my little boy a scenic walk, Seb is oblivious to his mummy’s self-reproach and is perfectly happy playing at home instead.

Another part of the book that really rung true for me was the idea that desire, whether it be for material things or success or admiration, is the cause of suffering as it prevents us from seeing the potential for happiness in the present moment.  We often have a tendency to think that we will be truly happy if we could just buy that dream house, or start that business, or have one more baby.  The reality is that every time I get something I want, I simply move on to the next object of my desire instead of stopping to appreciate what I have.

Since having Sebastian I still religiously write ‘To Do’ lists as it is my way of clearing my head and feeling in control.  This only creates a problem when ticking off my ‘To Do’ list takes precedence over spending quality time with Seb and Mr G.  Napthali perfectly sums up the adverse impact on our children of becoming caught up in a task-oriented mindset…“As slaves to time, we can live with an obsession for getting stuff done…when we slip too far into this way of thinking, we end up fitting our children in around our own arrangements and becoming less sensitive to their needs”.

I am slowly coming to realise that, even with the best will in the world and the best laid plans, I can only ever have a semblance of control and I need to be flexible if I want to stay sane.  It’s fine to have a list of things that I would ‘like’ to get done, but if I have a bad night with Sebastian or I am woken up with heartburn (one of the perks of pregnancy!), I need to forget about all the non-essential tasks the next day rather than kill myself trying to do everything I had planned.

I have a fair way to go in my quest for ‘Mindfulness’ but reading Napthali’s book has made me more aware of how my mental ‘busyness’ is denying me a full appreciation of all the wonderful things in my life.  I have an amazing husband, a beautiful son and another precious baby on the way, and I owe it to all of them to be more present.  I am lucky enough to be in a position to stay at home to raise my children and I want to savour every moment of watching them grow without any regrets or guilt.  I also want to feel content in my own skin and stop trying to live up to irrelevant ideals…easier said than done!

I highly recommend this book to other mums who might be in need of some spiritual inspiration.  I am by no means a spiritual person, but I think there is a lot to be gained from paying closer attention to our thought processes and how they impact our view of the world.  I know the things that I need to change and, although it won’t happen overnight, I’m committed to being a more attentive, calm and resilient mother.

Baby Busy Bags and Treasure Baskets…

I first discovered ‘Busy Bags’ on the fantastic Second Story Window blog site and instantly fell in love with the idea.  I started trawling the internet for ideas and inspiration and set about making my first batch of Baby Busy Bags for Sebastian.

I managed to pick up some clear plastic zip-up bags fairly cheaply and then it was just a case of filling them with a selection of interesting baby-friendly items.  For the ones pictured below, I used some small books, plastic bath toys, mini discovery bottles, finger puppets and textured flash cards.

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The mini discovery bottles were inspired by a post on Plain Vanilla Mom.  I bought some small travel bottles and filled one with torn-up pieces of tin foil, and the other with some brightly coloured feather and silver star confetti.  They are a perfect size for little hands and Seb seems to love shaking them!  I will definitely be making some more of these using different fillings and different sized bottles.

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Whilst I was searching for Busy Bag ideas, I found another great blog post on The Imagination Tree about Baby Treasure Baskets.  Whereas Busy Bags are designed to be portable and keep baby occupied when you are out and about, Treasure Baskets are a way of presenting objects to your baby at home.  For the time being, I have created treasure baskets using all of Seb’s small (and often forgotten about) toys but I plan to create another set of treasure baskets using only natural objects and wooden toys as they provide more opportunity for discovery and exploration than plastic and electronic toys.

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Our Treasure Baskets contain a variety of small electronic toys, hand puppets, fabric books, stacking cups, Peek-A-Blocks and rattles.

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I also filled some empty Huggies baby wipe boxes with a selection of small toys and flash cards to take in the car for long journeys.  I originally got the idea for this on Plain Vanilla Mom.

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I am planning to keep a couple of these boxes in the back of the car so that I always have something to entertain Seb with.  I have literally just this morning bought the ‘In the Night Garden Little Library’ and ‘Very Hungry Caterpillar Little Learning Library’ miniature book sets so I will add 2 or 3 little books to each travel box as well.

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I found a wonderful Etsy shop called Curious Minds Busy Bags and I have ordered some great supplies for my next batch of Busy Bags which will be focused on developing fine motor skills. Activities include sorting trays, ball weaving and bead stringing.

Curious Minds Busy Bags

I also bought a ‘Peek, Seek & Find‘ activity bag at my local bookshop as I thought it looked like a great Busy Bag item!  The fabric bag is filled with lots of colourful objects for baby to find, and there is a detachable list of items to search for on the back of the bag for when Seb is able to read.

Peek Seek & Find Bag

This purchase led me to discover the wealth of ‘I Spy Bags’ available and I will definitely be buying some smaller versions to keep in the car and in the nappy bag.  Etsy has lots of mini I Spy Bags to choose from but I particularly like this one from LilasLocker.

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So that’s my Busy Bag journey so far and I could see them becoming an integral part of our house as they can evolve as your child gets older.  There are so many fantastic ideas for toddler activities and I think I’ll have great fun coming up with creative and educational activities.  I might even consider hosting a Busy Bag Swap if I can convince my mummy friends to take part!